Being outside in nature can be another way to connect with someone who has died. Here there are so many avenues for connection. We can simply invite our friend to come with us on a walk, or sit and enjoy a special place. An expansive landscape, majestic mountains, silver moonlight, vast starry skies; the colors of a blossom, sparkling dew drops on a blade of grass; birds coming close, a butterfly resting for a few moments, deer lingering before going their way; a gentle breeze brushing our face; light filtering through the leaves of the trees; raindrops falling; snow blanketing the earth with quietude.
Perhaps it is easier for us in nature to become quiet, observe, and just be. In that quietness, the being of the departed can be perceived more readily. It is not something that happens necessarily ‘on demand’. An attitude of invitation helps. Loving thoughts towards your friend do too. Being still in our soul and open, spreading out towards the surrounding natural world. Going beyond our own skin, small world, and sorrow, and becoming part of something larger for a few moments. These seem to be conditions in which an encounter with someone who has died are more likely to happen.
The rhythm of walking may also help to leave the busy-ness of life behind and enter into a quieter space. Let your body relax into the cadence of your stride. Let your eyes wander and your soul become wide in the landscape. If you can, go to a place where you can see far every now and then. Visit the horizon. It is another place for connection with the being of your loved one. And remember, horizon is all around, even behind you…
Loving Deeds Beyond Death 
Looking forward to your thoughts!